I went to dps auntie's funeral a few weeks ago and it was incredibly weepy occasion.
The priest was very moving as he knew her well, she had several eulogies which were very touching and managed that fine line between sentiment and respect, she had eight siblings all were there in fact over 150 people who knew her well came to the funeral and the cremation whcih followed.
There was a solo Irish baritone singer who led the hymns and sang solo at both the crematorium and the church (services lasted two hours altogether)
He sang Danny Boy, and a few other tear jerkers one was something to do with fields and Mary?..i went without any tissues and I had tears streaming as it was very emotional and brought back memories .. we then went on to the irish club and by the evening they had a big irish dancing competition..evening ended with us having an Indian meal at about 12.00am
I planned some songs for my funeral about ten years ago
This is one
Artist: Eddie Vedder with Nusrat Fateh Ali Khan Lyrics
Song: Long Road Lyrics
And I wished for so long, cannot stay...
All the precious moments, cannot stay...
It's not like wings have fallen, cannot stay...
But I feel something's missing, cannot say...
Holding hands are daughters and sons
And their faiths just falling down, down, down, down...
I have wished for so long
How I wish for you today
We all walk the long road. Cannot stay...
There's no need to say goodbye...
All the friends and family
All the memories going round, round, round, round
I have wished for so long
How I wish for you today
And the wind keeps roaring
And the sky keeps turning gray
And the sun is set
The sun will rise another day...
We all walk the long road. Cannot stay...
There's no need to say goodbye...
All the friends and family
All the memories going round, round, round, round
I have wished for so long
How I wish for you today
How I've wished for so long
How I wish for you today
We all walk the long road (3x)
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Nusrat Fateh Ali Khan with Eddie Vedder Lyrics