I Have only made it to 2 and half weeks of having my Dt's and i have had enough.
I knwe it was never going to be easy but i didn't expect to feel this crappy.
Sounds silly but, I have a c-section so I can't pick my dd up (who is the 22 month old terrible toddler in this)
it is making my life really hard as I have to rely on the help of other people to take care of her, she feels left out as she see's me holding the dt's and doesn't understand why I can't do things with her.
So she gets frustrated and then so does DH when he is looking after her, he has a go at her then I have a go at him for being an arse, then we fight which only upsets her more and makes her want to be held by me more.
Dh and I are at eachothers throats all the time as well because one of the dt's doesn't sleep at night so we are both really tired, and I can't stop feeling like shit because everytime I look at this dt I don't feel how I think I should about her, I know I must love her but tbh i don't like her.
God i feel even worse admitting that. I could never say that out loud I guess that is why I am on here.
I just feel so low and I am dreading my six week check up because when the Dr gives me the all clear I won't have the help I have now with dd, I don't know how I will cope on my own, I have tried to tell dh how I feel but he just shrugs it off by saying that he will help me, but he can't be with me during the day cause he has to work.
How am I going to cope with 2 babies and a toddler who is entering the terrible 2's early
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Terrible Toddler and twins and I can't stop crying
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1becomes3 · 15/04/2007 16:30
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