He seems to think its an acceptable form of punishment. One which I absolutely am against and have told him personally via email and through a solicitors letter.
I am the residential parent and I have never hit the children, he sees them every other weekend and consistently hits them (around the head, and also apparently this weekend kicked, with shoes on!) I have pulled him up on this before and even had a solicitors letter go to him regarding the matter (which back and forth, cost me £1000!!). But he just slips back into this behaviour.
How do I stop this?? This weekend he apparently showed the children an article online to tell them that it was 'legal' for him to hit them as 'a reasonable form of punishment' and then went on to hit and kick (mainly DS - 9) 3 times over the course of 2 days.
Do I stop contact, point blank?
He was EA towards me in the marriage and I have NC, only curt emails if absolutely necessary.
I don't know the best course of action, please can someone advise what to do for the best?
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ExH won't stop hitting children as 'punishment'
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Rosyleigh · 21/03/2016 16:50
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