TTC after a Miscarriage - Love and Luck to all who need it!

[jinglediddle]

Well its about time you had a new thread.
I wanted to wish you all the best of luck with your trying to conceive and say that it might take weeks months or years, but you won't find a better group for support.
We have all been through the same experinces and talking to someone who has felt the same makes a world of difference.
You will all get your BFP's soon and in the meantime, lets try and keep as calm and de-stressed as possible.

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[mumsXMASwish]

hello!!!! New thread!! Woohoo

[Stockinghanger]

Phew! Thats better! My PC has just breathed a huge sigh of relief!

[carlychristmas]

Thanks DIDDLE Heres hoping this thread is a lucky one with just a bit of christmas magic xx (yeah i know far too early but hey!)

[Stockinghanger]

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[mumsXMASwish]

Thanks SH.

Are you officially trying now? I mean ditched the condoms trying?

[jinglediddle]

oh yeh stockinghanger, lovely big chunk of baby dust well remembered. everyone grab some.

[Stockinghanger]

Ditched but not much hope

[Stockinghanger]

Ditched but not much hope

[mumsXMASwish]

Can he not get fixed? (sorry am prying, just tell me to buggar off if you want)
Are you going to be ok here now? With the very ttc bunch? (i'm not one of those yet by the way)

[Stockinghanger]

Oh I'm fine! DH will get fixed once he has seen his GP to be referred. Think he is going today actually....

[mumsXMASwish]

Thats good then. Will you be actively trying when he gets fixed or do the condoms come back out?

[Stockinghanger]

No - tomorrow. Will find out what needs to be done.
I am not really TTCing because it is highly unlikely I will get pG, but we have stopped using contraception so I suppose that makes me up for it!!

[Stockinghanger]

Haven't thought about what will happen afterwards TBH

[slinksanta]

great new thread name ;)
stockinghanger- my dp has same as your dh, i left you a message on another thread i dunno whether you got it though.

[mumsXMASwish]

We're getting a house.... we're getting a house.

Just been on the phone to my parents to tell them as they didnt even know we'd found a house we liked. lol

Sorry I know I'm boring you all but..... I'm getting a house

[Stockinghanger]

What thead slinkie? The one I started about his problem?

[slinksanta]

found it - the one in miscarriage section;)

[Stockinghanger]

Slinkie and Carly - have posted on that thread but will CAT you too

[Stockinghanger]

I couldn't CAT you Slinkie so this is what I wanted to say:

Thank you so much for your post on that thread It has given me hope and I actually feel a bit better now.

I am getting used to the fact it could cause problems. I don't think about it all the time like I did at first, but every so often it comes to mind and I have to fight the depression.

It just seems like everything is against me having another baby really. First I had the MC, then DH tells me he doesn't want to try again, then he is dianosed with this. Never mind, if I do fall PG then I know it is meant to be as it has happened dispite all the odds.

Thanks again for your post, you have given me a reason to smile again I mean properly smile.

Thank you

[Stockinghanger]

Carly I can't CAT you. Go to your profile and change it to be able to receive CATs

[carlychristmas]

i think its done now

[mumsXMASwish]

I've just been on plant duty. We've got 6 plants in the office and I have to water them every week. It's a pain in the arse. I couldnt even keep a cactus alive what do they expect me to do with these things? LOL

[carlychristmas]

aww mums! plant duty how fun i remember having a stupid venus fly trap thing as a child (some bizarre xmas pressie from someone!) and i done nothing with it and the stupid thing still wouldnt die i think in the end my mum just threw it away lol

[mumsXMASwish]

These things have cost the company £700 though! Cant kill those. Wish I could. I've started drowning them, then I dont have to do it as often I had a venus fly-trap once. (DF wanted one) and it died within a couple of weeks of having it.

[Stockinghanger]

All done Carly