I am sat with my hubby in hospital and have just been told that baby has died, there is no heartbeat.
I haven't really cried although my hubby is in bits. They are about to give me a tablet which will get things going to induce labour.
This was my first pregnancy. I think I may be in shock cos all I can think of is the practical things. Like cancelling the furniture order which is being delivered on Wednesday. Yesterday we did a massive shop, ordered a travel system, bought bedding, a cuddly toy etc. I have just cancelled an Asda order due for delivery where I had bought some nappies and sudocream etc.
The thing I am dreading is telling the rest of my family and my friends. I hate pity and I hate people feeling sorry for me. My family are all going to want to come round and I don't think I want to see them just yet.
I am scared about how I'm going to feel in the following months. It took us 18 months to conceive. Am I right in thinking I will get full maternity leave as baby is going to be classed as stillborn rather than miscarriage? One of my best friends at work is pregnant. And another has just had her baby.
What am I going to do with all the baby clothes I have bought?
Please say a prayer for us.
Any advice on coping is appreciated x
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Have just lost my baby at 25 weeks
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