DP went out an hour ago and I'm still angry with him so I'm going to have to vent.
Anyway, it was my day off today because I work weekends and I'm absolutely choked with the cold. I had a really bad night's sleep last night so was kind of hoping to have a little lie-in. DP has to leave for work at 8:15 to catch the bus to work. As usual, his alarm started going off about 7:15 and as usual it was left to me to get up and put it on snooze every 5 minutes until he eventually decides to get out of bed (this is an argument that I'm saving for another day). Every time it went off I told him he needed to get up and shook him awake. After a while, he told me to stop f*cking elbowing him (just trying to make sure he gets up in time).
I had to keep nagging him until he eventually got out of bed at 8:20 and then he decided that he wanted to wear a particular shirt so I had to iron it. At 8:30 he was ready to go and said that I had to take him because he'd missed the bus. At this point, I explained that it wasn't my fault he didn't get out of bed and he's just going to have to take the consequences. I was still in pajamas anyway (also it would have been a round trip of an hour for me). He lost the head and said that I am really selfish and he would do it for me if he could drive (coming from the guy who wouldn't even help me find my car key on his day off when I had looked everywhere). He called me a horrible bitch and left.
Anyway I heard a taxi arrive outside the house which I'm sure he's going to bring up later because it'll have cost him an arm and a leg. The funny thing is that if he had not stood there and argued with me he may have made it to work on time without a taxi. Have i been horrible and selfish?
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peacelover · 21/04/2010 10:05
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