Following on from my friends nursery situation, got me thinking bout my own.
Atm ds1 is at Nursery in the morning 8.50am till 11.50am.
I get up at 7am to have a shower, and get myself dressed and sterilise/make ds2 bottles (he has 4 bottles and has 1 for bedtime, and one for during the night) and take out the food to defrost for him for that days meals, and set the table for breakfast (toast + porridge and juice for us) (Now 7.45am)get children up and dressed for Nursery and leave the house by 8.25 to get to school for 8.50am.
The Night before, I iron all of our clothes and make dh lunch) , and get ds1 changing bag sorted (on days we have play groups/hospital appointments etc) and also tidy the house.
Dh is fab, not putting him down in any way (sort off) as he does bath the children, make tea, put a washing on etc... all normal things, but he does not help out in the morning, he wakes up at 6.30am, and leaves the house by 7.25 and he only gets himself sorted and does not do the table for breakfast, take ds2 meals out, wash bottles etc... all little things but would help me loads, as ds1 needs a feed at 8.15am (always and I am knackered with it all (stupid) knackered with the school run, knackered with ds1 feeding times, as its always in the times I need to pick ds2 from Nursery, and tired as I get up at 7am, and dont get to bed till 11pm, and when I start back work (evenings) in march its going to be even worse
I have asked him, but still nothing changes, Im sure he thinks I am wonder woman at times, I just need a little help.
AIBU to be more stern at him, to take me seriously.
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LittleMrsHappy · 27/01/2010 12:13
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