I know it's a Christmas one but it's an aibu.
I don't want to go into too much detail and be outed, but simply, I have a large family, children of my own, my parents, grandparents, siblings and nieces and nephews.
All of my siblings have children, some of their children have partners and children and so on.
I've always spent around £30 each on my nieces and nephews, but it's becoming too much.
Some of my nieces and nephews are adults now, and they don't even send me a card at Christmas. I don't mind this, they have their own families now, but I'm thinking now would be a good time to stop sending gifts to the adult nieces and nephews.
I would still send a Christmas card and a token present such as some chocolates but that's it. I think this is probably fair and I'd buy for the small children only.
I'm only a bit worried because one of my siblings spends a lot on me and my children, I don't ask for anything and they aren't well off but they must just love Christmas. I think they'll be offended if I don't spend out on their children, even though their children are now adults.
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Zarabell · 06/12/2016 14:03
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