A couple we have known for about three years and became very close to are getting married one month after myself and my fiancé next spring. We are close to the couple myself and the female of the couple text pretty much every day and we meet up when we can. She always says what a great friend I am to her etc. She told us categorically we were invited to their whole wedding, lots of "I wish you were my bridesmaid you mean so much to me" etc. They asked us to book a room in their venue (expensive but we did it). You can see where this is going.
They have exactly the same number of day guests as us, a large ish amount, above 100. They are invited to our full day and now we have been told they are struggling for numbers and we have been moved to an evening invitation.
I feel really annoyed because we have paid for the hotel for an evening do which I wouldn't normally do and we have given them a full day invitation which I also wouldn't have done as I feel er down as they have misled us and obviously decided we are not as close as they were making out.
They are having lots of friends by the way not just family.
It's annoying because we struggled with our list too but wouldn't dream of just inviting them to the evening. WIBU to tell them we are disappointed or just not bother going?
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Evening and not day invitation
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WritersBlockk · 05/12/2016 22:06
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