It's my husbands birthday today, he is 32. Since I've known him, his parents and other family have never made much effort for his birthday. Even on his 30th, they made no real effort at all, a card and present almost shoved at him in the morning. I thought with it being a special birthday they may have at least got a cake, maybe a bottle of something fizzy- not too expensive- and come round and shared it as a family. But no, I found out that they were planing nothing like that, so I had to organise something literally last minute, so he had something. Last year they didn't do anything either, then last night my FIL asked if they wanted him and MIL to have our little one from last night, meaning dh wouldn't even have seen him today. I asked if they were planning to do anything or us all go out, but nothing. And other family members do not live that far away, yet they haven't made an effort to come either, not even a card in the post.
The only cards and presents he has are from my family. Now I know he's a grown man and it's not about presents and things. But I thought they may have made an effort.
It's worse because on my birthday last year they came round with things for me, and invited themselves to join us at our meal. And this year they came to see me. And they came for our little ones 1st birthday last month.
AIBU to think that his own family should do more for him?
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To think that dh's parents and family should make more effort?
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Kel1234 · 08/10/2016 10:45
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