I have 2 DDs. They're almost 12 and 3.
DD1 went to a prep school - we were very comfortable (with money) I was part-time, but DH had a great, good paying job. She received a scholarship, which covered 90% of fees - we pay 10% (which isn't a lot - £3,000 a year)...
DH had a bad accident, he had to leave his job, he does get some benefits, but not much at all. I have had to go back to full-time work and we can only just about afford childcare. DD2 is at the nursery which DD1 went to, she is entitled to her 15 hours very soon, it's the same price as any other nursery. We won't be able to pay the mortgage (which is quite high!) if we sent her to the same school... We would need to move to a 2 bed flat. The girls would have to share, which isn't ideal, due to their age gaps.
I just don't want DD2 thinking I don't love her as much. I read on a different thread about resentment. I also want her to have the same opportunities.
I just don't know
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to move to a flat, so I can pay for DD2's school fees?
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DarcyMaisy · 18/09/2016 16:23
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