So dd has a pre -season football tournament tomorrow and dh is taking her - fine.
Ds would also be playing the first game of the season for his team tomorrow, but he has a broken toe and so he is out injured. Dh seems to think that it is some massive big bloody deal that I should take ds to go and watch his team mates play the game. Why? Who gives a damn! I wish them well as does ds, and we hope that they get a good result - but I have other stuff to do and don't see why its totally vital that I drive 15 miles to a game, stay and watch and then drive 15 miles back.
Time is precious and since during footie season dd plays every Saturday, and ds plays every Saturday AND every frigging Sunday (AND on top of this we are season ticket holders for our premiership club), I'm thinking how nice to take advantage of an enforced absence. If ds wasn't injured and was playing - naturally I would take him....but since he isn't, both of us are quite 'meh' about going and supporting (time involved around 3 hours). I doubt any of the players, the manager or the other parents will notice whether we are there or not, and certainly don't think they would be censorious about our absence...however dh is 'appalled' that I don't think it is necessary to take ds to watch. Dh is imo totally obsessed with football (I like football, but I have it in some kind of perspective)
So is ds being a massive twat or am I in the wrong?
Sorry if I sound a bit ranty but it helps to let it out
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..to think that dh is a bit of a twat, and that this is not necessary
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hmcAsWas · 03/09/2016 21:09
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