Posted on chat but got no response so taking aibu plunge.
I get up at 6.30, get everything ready for kids for school, get them ready, 2 DC, one with adhd, need to leave about 8.15 to get youngest to childcare and then on to school for eldest. I need to be ready before she gets up, otherwise it's too difficult she just stops getting ready if one of us not around. DH gets up around 8 am, sorts himself out and leaves for work. He can't get up any earlier because he's tired. He doesn't see a problem as he "needs to rest". Possibly because he hasn't gone to bed until silly time in the morning.
My problem is
1, this means he goes into work later, which means he's home later, and children are in Childcare, albeit with family, for longer than they need to be.
2, I just don't think it's fair he gets a lie in every day! He also sleeps in at the weekend.
3, DH used to do school run, we had to swop because he got so stressed by it and DD was late to school which seriously annoyed me. I got a new job which enabled me to do school morning run. I expected him to be available in evenings, he agreed, but that hasn't happened. He does pick them up around 6, but he could pick up at 4.30 and they could have some down time at home.
Had huge argument this morning, he thinks there isn't a problem, I do. But aibu?
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redwinerequired · 27/07/2016 18:59
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