This is more of a WWYD. The wife of a very good friend is dying, and will go any minute, most likely. DP and I are due to go on holidays tomorrow, abroad for two weeks.
I really don't know if I should plan to go on holiday late/fly back for the funeral.
I'm really torn. They're very good friends and I feel like I'll regret it if I don't go.
But on the other hand, we've had a tough year in some respects (not as tough as them, obviously), and I feel like I owe it to DP to go on holiday.
Aaagh. Can't decide. What do you think?
(Also, I should say, that this is all taking place in a country where funerals happen very soon after death, so if she does go within the next couple of days, the funeral will definitely be while we're away - not the English scenario of a couple of weeks in the future)
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Rainatnight · 21/07/2016 07:02
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