I've posted here for traffic. DS (8) made friends with a little boy(approx 5-6) on the little street we live in a couple months back. He often stays with his grandparents who live there. They met whilst playing out and have played together on several occasions. They attend the same primary school although they are in different yards. I've been happy for DS to gain some independence playing out but this little boys parents seem very relaxed compared to me, the little boy asked if my DS could go to the park with them when I never met them.
It's started to become a big issue in recent weeks, the little boy would often call fairly late 6-7 for DS. I was happy for DS to go out to play as we were putting down the two youngest DC who's 3 and our newborn baby to bed. The little seems insisted on coming into the house, I explained that it wasn't an appropriate time as we were seeing to the other DC and its different if its on an afternoon. DS went outside with the little boy but they had an argument about him not coming into our house, this resulted in DS coming back in. He said hes getting fed up of playing with this little boy as hes nasty to him calling him names when DS says he cant come in.
I explained he is younger maybe doesn't understand we have small children and that if he doesn't want to play with him that day he doesn't have to. Saturday came and the little boy knocked on the afternoon DS said he didn't want to play out today and was playing with his sister during a space of an hour he called 10 times.
Yesterday the little boy knocked at 6.10 and was told by DH he was at his DF and he returned at 7.30 to be told the same by me. Tonight we had several knocks again calling at 8.30 and 8.55.
ABIU to think that's far too late to be going out? DS was actually in bed asleep at the time. I told him it was far too late to be knocking especially as he continuously knocks and we have small children. I happened to look over and his Nana was out the front watching him.
I do feel sorry for him hes only young and I have suggested DS go out and play with him but the times he is calling are not appropriate. I'm at a loss how to best handle the situation sensitively
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Child knocking on door for DS at unsocialable hours
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Cosmo111 · 18/07/2016 21:25
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