I have 11 month twins and 5 weeks away from having no 3. I can't decide whether Its hormones and crankiness causing me to feel this way or if I have a right to be upset!
My twins will be 1 in Aug, 5 days before my due date and we are having a party for them. His family are from down south (we are in Scotland) and he has invited his elderly grandparents up for it not for 1 night but for 4 nights 5 days! I'm furious as to be honest the last thing I want is having to look after 2 house guests for that amount of time, plan and organise a party for 40. So I tried to say to my partner that he better take the fri off work and entertain them so I don't need to but he can't get it off.. So now the fri before my boys birthday I need to have his grandparents sitting about in my house. My partner says they can help but how can they? His grandad can barely walk to end of street and bk and his gran is partially blind! Plus I can't get them in my car with the kids too!
So his mum is up tonight and I mentioned it to her that I'm a bit stressed about it as I don't want to leave them for 5 days sitting in house in hope she might have a word with them! She's only gone and openly suggested to his sister that she should come up on the fri to help, this would mean her sleep in on my sofa! 😁😁 I'm about to have a melt down... His sister is a soiled brat who doesn't lift a finger when here ever to help and plays dumb when her mum asks her to do anything so how on earth she can help me prepare food and bake a cake is beyond me.. Plus I don't need help, what I need is no one in my house for more than 1 night 5 days before I have a baby!!
Today I have had to talk to his mum and sis all day coz he doesn't and then he just said at 9 pm I'm going to bed! I was like emmmm no your not in going for a shower to wash my hair, then text him from upstairs to say how can he expect me to entertain his family all the time when he makes no effort himself? I'm 8 months pregnant and could do with a bit of peace and quiet but I'm not rude and wouldn't leave my guests sitting in their own all night!
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Kmoggy · 16/07/2016 21:34
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