ExH and I have a 9 yo DD. The year before last I suggested he collect her from school on his weekends with her so he could have some involvement in her school life as he'd had none so far. He started doing so but would keep her uniform, not read or do homework with her, not return her coat/shoes/lunch box etc. Eventually I had no option (after several warnings) to revert to him collecting her from home at 4 instead.
We went to court earlier this year and they said there's no reason he can't collect from/return to school to minimise conflict because he's still very bitter towards me. I agreed but mentioned what happened last time and he said he would return uniform and ensure homework etc was completed. However, in the past three weekends he's had her he hasn't encouraged her to do her homework, hasn't listened to her read, hasn't practised spellings with her, has kept letters from school which he doesn't need but I do and hasn't told me about them, has kept certificates she wanted to have at home which has left her in tears and has 'forgotten' uniform items twice to instigate having to drop by the next day. Aibu to ask him to do as discussed in court or else revert to collection from home from September?
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to think I'm not being unreasonable to stop exH collecting DD from school?
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alificent · 05/07/2016 22:24
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