I think I probably am. Thread over. That was easy.
(Not really)
DH and I are probably both 6/10 on physical appearance but we madly fancy each other and all is well with regard to sex life etc.
Buuuut...it does annoy me that he gives literally not a shit what he wears. He works somewhere without a dress code so wears jeans and t-shirt. Maybe a shirt and tie if meeting a Director. Outside of work it's jeans and t-shirt. Maybe a football shirt. Not nice ones. Skanky ones with holes in. He has a gross coat that looks like a sheepskin number a football manager would have worn in the 80s. The elastic on his pants is barely attached. He has one pair of shoes at a time which he wears to death and then replaces.
I have bought him nicer stuff as gifts in the past like well-made t-shirts or Levis rather than M&S jeans but he never retires the old holey stuff (does this make me sound like a controlling bitch?).
I must say he is meticulous about showering, shaving and smelling nice. It's just the clothes.
I do feel a little embarrassed sometimes that he looks so shabby. He says he doesn't care what other people think. This is what makes me think IABU and shallow.
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boggysiscuit · 23/06/2016 23:19
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