We haven't been together for years, we have a fairly good relationship, we speak every day regarding DS and how each other is etc and would describe is as friends
A couple of times ex has needed to 'clear his head' and has gone away for a few days and we have haven't spoken, he has always told us about this and these couple of times are the only times were not in contact
This weekend we spoke as normal Thursday, then nothing all weekend! I texted him updates on DS and some pics on whatsapp which I could see he hadn't open! I was getting increasingly worried as the weekend went on, tried ringing him today, straight to voicemail, I was really worried, rang his mum (who he lives with) and she said she hadn't seen him (he doesn't have many friends or go out etc) she said if she saw him she'd pass on I was worried and that was that. I thought it was slightly strange she wasn't more worried, I had a chat with my mum and was very concerned, decided if no contact after tonight I would ring his mum again and it would be a case of reporting it
Anyway 1 hour later I get a text 'I'm fine been away, phone died, speak later'
I'm relieved obviously but mostly I'm fuming, firstly if something had happened to DS or me during this time how the hell would he have known? And secondly I spent my weekend, mainly today really concerned and imagining all sorts!!
I don't intend to argue with him over this but I do think he should know as a parent you can't just drop off the face of the earth for 3 days!! All he had to say was I'm going away for a few days I won't be in contact, as he has done before and all would be fine!!
Am I right to think this is totally selfish behaviour?
AIBU?
to be really peeved at DS's dad
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