Did you have it the second time?
I have a DS aged 3.10, the pregnancy was truly horrific.
From about 6 weeks I was throwing up or feeling sick constantly.
I was hospitalized 5 times during the pregnancy, for a total of 10 weeks.
It was a real struggle, and had to give up work, really early on as I just couldn't cope, the only thing that saved me was the support of DP and a couple of very close friends, who were/are brilliant.
The reason I ask is, I had those early sicky symptoms a little while ago (it was a bug I think), and it threw up a debate we had never had before.
While DP already has two adult DDs we do sort of feel it would be nice for DS to have a sibling close to his age, but I absolutely cannot do that pregnancy again.
I hate hospitals anyway, and 10 weeks of that, plus not being able to eat anything/do anything and the traumatic birth coupled with DS's v worrying 2 weeks in SCBU with some very frightening potential outcomes, I can't help but feel it's not worth it.
So as not to drip feed, I have been pregnant before DS (I had a termination) and I had severe HG then as well, so I'm assuming my body just hates being pregnant!
So....AIBU to ask if you did/would do it again? And was it as bad the second time around?
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To ask if you had v bad HG the 1st time.......
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BadDoGooder · 28/03/2016 22:28
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