Have namechanged for this - have been around for many a year though.
My DD's dad's (my XH) family are from overseas - they all used to live here until about 2 years ago when they all (except for DD's dad and grandmother) returned to their home country. There is currently talk about her eldest cousin coming back over to live with her grandma and uncle in their flat - she is currently 15.
I've been told in passing by DD that her cousin will be sharing bunk beds with her uncle (her grandma has medical problems so cannot share I believe) when she moves in. Now this doesn't sit right with me - a 15 year old girl sharing with a 35 year old man! Surely at 15 (mid-puberty) she would need her privacy at the very least. I'm struggling to find any form of law or guidance online to validate my concerns but I'm pretty sure i'm being reasonable with my worries?
Would appreciate your take on this and what I can do other than voice my concerns to XH and hope he takes them on board and acts accordingly (although I'm not quite sure what can be done considering the space limitations).
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DD's Cousin Sharing With Her Adult Uncle
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GoingAnonymouse · 09/03/2016 13:18
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