As some are aware my ex sexually assaulted me with our son in the next room.
I reported this to the police. Children services contacted me saying no further action would be taken, but it is my responsibility to ensure that my son is safe during contact with dad.
Dad was quite happy to do this when our son was in the next room.
I dont know how i can be certain that this is not going to happen again, with someone else.
Right now, i dont believe dad is in a relationship or even seeing anyone. I also dont believe right now that dad would invite someone over when our son was there.
At the same time though, i dont know for a fact.
How can i ensure my sons safety when he is at dads, when i am not there?
I dont know if in thinking far too much into this or not. It feels like if anything went wrong at dads, i will be at fault for failing to safeguard.
So what can i do? Am i just over thinking it?
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