I work p/t, mostly 3 but sometimes 4 days a week. My DS is 2 years 9 months and spends two days in nursery and either one or two days (depending what week it is) with my parents while I'm working.
He has never been a 'good sleeper' but long story short, I think he's ready to stop napping and that it will improve night time sleep.
Nursery put all the toddlers down for a nap for an hour or so. When he's with my parents they try to go for a drive so he'll snooze in the car seat, and I suspect this is about 1.5 hours. Trouble is, on those days his bedtime is getting later and later - when I've been at work I obviously want to spend a bit of time with him after getting in, but even aside from that I'm finding I can't get him to settle til about 8.30/9pm which is surely too late for a toddler??
The odd thing is he definitely sleeps worse when he's gone to bed later - wakes up more often and gets up earlier in the morning (think 5.30/6am!) after a late night, whereas when he's settled at 7 he'll sleep til 6.30/7am.
So I think it's best to drop the naps and try to get him doing a good long sleep EVERY night for his own benefit. Asked my mum to try not to let him sleep today and got a big long lecture about being too controlling and how naps are good for them and bedtimes don't matter.
Very rich coming from her since I DISTINCTLY remember being put to bed early at a much older age and not being allowed to watch programmes I wanted etc!! AIBU to say I am in charge of his routine, or is this one of those things you need to 'let go' if they're in someone else's care?
The thing that bothers me is that I feel he's constantly a bit sleep deprived - I just want him firing on all cylinders and truly think stopping napping will help him sleep BETTER!
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To ask nursery/parents not to let toddler nap or am I 'controlling'?!
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PenelopeChipShop · 21/04/2015 12:17
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