My DC has been saying "I'm white and you're black and friend 1 is black and friend 2 is white...'. Obviously I'm not annoyed at DC as he's only 3 but it turns out that this was a conversation that they had had at pre-school with one of the teachers.
AIBU to think that by the time kids are in pre-school they should be able to understand more than just 'black and white' based on what people look like?
I can see that the teacher was probably put on the spot by one of kids and didn't really think about what she was saying, but I would have thought that it could have been handled in less 'black and white' terms, especially as there is quite a mix of kids in the nursery.
Perhaps I should have already discussed this with DC but so far the question of 'race' as such hasn't come up. It's been more a case of 'so and so's mummy/daddy/whoever is from here'...and not in terms of race, just country of origin.
The black/white thing is a personal bugbear of mine because I'm a mix of ethnicities and back when I was a child there was still quite a bit of (what we would now class as) racism about so not sure if I'm just being over sensitive.
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To be annoyed at what my 3yo just said..'I'm white and you're black''
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squiggler · 22/11/2014 09:25
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