We've finally decided to get married, but we don't want the fuss or expense that's associated with a wedding.
No party, no wedding dress, no suit hires... No guests.
We get the feeling that if we invited people who'd be really disappointed to have not been invited (like OH's dad and nana for instance), that we'd piss off everyone else. Kind of a, if you invite some you have to invite them all, situation.
And if you invite hordes of people they'll expect an actual wedding, won't they? And not us just popping into a building to sign some papers, which is what it will be. Anti-climactic and a waste of time, right?
So would we be selfish, unreasonable arseholes for not inviting anyone?
From what I've read on here I'll be doing the majority a massive favour by sparing them the faff of a wedding anyway
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Would we be arseholes if we got married, and didn't invite anyone?
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Theicingontop · 01/04/2013 19:01
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