Sorry for name change but sensitive subject.
Basically I have a group of friends, mainly female but also 4 males. We were trying to organise a night out for Christmas but one of our friend's is muslim so can't go in pubs. Not a problem - we therefore arranged it so that we went for a meal first (so she could come) and then drinks later (when she would go home). We were all happy with this. However now she's saying she doesn't want the blokes invited and wants it to be girl's only. This is akward because the guys think they're coming and are looking forward to the meal. So now we either tell the guys they can't come to the meal or we tell her the guys are coming and she can decide what she wants to do. I feel awful either way.
Another thing is that the resteraunt we were going to (and were looking forward to) she is now saying we can't go as her family live near there and she wants to go to one at the other end of the city instead (which is awkward again as us drinkers won't be able to drive!!).
So what do you do?? I care for this particular friend a lot but this is really starting to effect the group as a whole now
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MiniMegs · 29/10/2011 14:29
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