Have no idea whether im slightly over sensitive, a bit depressed at the minute and taking AD's so am quite willing to be told I am, however, I had an experience wherein my partner and I were in a local winebar having drinks and his ex was in the same place. We have made an effort to avoid anywhere where she is as its still quite raw for everyone, they have been together over 20 years and just finished last year (ive been dating him since last November, I think she believes that he left her for me, not true).
She was sitting somewhere in the bar (dont know where as wasnt paying attention, enjoying my nite out with boyfriend and friends). Boyfriend said he passed by her and she was actually sitting with her back to us with a group of male friends. She calls my boyfriend up a few days later to voice her objection to us being in a same winebar as her and also to tell him that I had walked past her to use the toilet 3 times and also to take a call outside once.
My boyfriend asked her how she could possibly know how often I went to the bathroom etc and it transpired that 2 of the men at the table were keeping her informed of what I was doing. These men are in their mid 40's, as is boyfriends ex.
I find this a bit creepy, its like every move I made was watched and commented on. Am I being unreasonable or over sensitive.
I have had no interaction with this lady, got a few nasty texts etc from her when I started dating her ex which I ignored, she was quite obviously upset at the time but this has really disturbed me.
I have male friends myself and I can assure you that none of them would be keeping tabs on any girl for me, its childish and a bit weird, or is it me?
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lastroseofsummer · 02/08/2011 10:31
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