Hi
I am 40 year old happily married professional mother of 2 but recently I began to regress into a insecure 14 year old.
I am always sociable with people at work but since returning from mat leave I have felt very left out.
I frequently walk into to rooms and people stop talking. I work in a team of 5. I found out recently that one of the team had a birthday party that all the others in the team went to but it was never mentioned in front of me. Tonight they have all gone on a night out but they were careful not to mention it in front of me. I heard about tonight when the lady in phocopying asked if i was going.
The thing that upsets me so much is the avoiding talking about things in front of me. I am that annoying that they are terrified I might want to go? I just feel so isolated and left out and as I said in my oping line I have gone from a happy secure woman into feling like an insercure and awkward school girl over it all.
i suspect it would be social susicide (if things could get worse) to bring up how i feel with them.
Any advice?
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legaleagle21 · 11/02/2011 22:54
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