Mumsnet jury is needed here, our yearly 'discussion argument has raised its ugly little head again so i want to know which one of us is BU.
DP works about 15-20 minute bike ride away, he has a bike, he has a flourecent jacket, he has a huge backpack for a lunch box and a change of clothes and after today he will have bike lights as well.
The origional plan was for him to ride to and from work and in the SUmmer this isnt a problem.
However winter it is a nightmare, he wants me to drive him to and from work, i dont think its reasonable as it is the same time that i am getting the kids ready for school and doing all of DS1's physio and medication. In the evening its the same time as i am oing ds1's medication and physio and getting them ready for bed.
I know its not nice to ride in the rain but i have suggested dp wear his regular clothes to ride in and take a dry uniform in his backpack to change into.
I have offered to make him hot soup to take in flask to work to keep him warm, i have always dais i dont mind having a hot cup of coffee and dry warm clothes ready for when he gets in, but no DP feels it necissary to start making my life difficut and getting in a foul mood becuase i have said that i wont drive him.
He says he is annoyed hat he is riding in the wet and dark (in the evening) when we have a perfectly useable car.
We would get another car but we cant affored to insure antoher one so that is out the question.
I have said maybe he could walk with an umbrella but no he wont do that either.
He has got waterproofs but refusues to bring them home with him.
SO AIBU to think that thereis loads of ways he could get to work and remain dry and comfortable without me driving him and disruptinf the kids routine?
AIBU?
AIBU or is DP?
TitsalinaBumSquash · 03/11/2010 08:13
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