My parents in law live about 2h drive away, about 1 1/2 hours by public transport. They are in their 70s but both drive and are mobile etc. I get on well with them, and we have them to stay overnight several times a year.
HOWEVER I do not want to commit to putting them (or anyone else, including my parents) up for the night for at least the first few weeks when our second child arrives. I just want some space especially during the night for feeds etc. They are very welcome to visit as many times as they wish to but I don't want them staying the night. I just want to get on with things myself.
My husband thinks I am being unreasonable. Am I?
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Emo76 · 16/08/2010 14:15
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