Right, I'm back as I'm at the computer and can post properly (hate posting from my phone). We've got 1 DS, he'll be 18 months at Christmas, and our house is already absolutely full of tat. I am quite happy for him to be given more tat though, that's not the issue! What we are cutting back on is:
- presents to everyone else - we're telling everyone that we're being really frugal this year/ agreeing to no presents at all. Me and DH will get each other a little something (I'm asking for a particular mug and a book) and that will be it. In the past I've gone completely mad at Christmas, and I still get the urge, but will stand firm. We will get DS a few little gifts, but not go crazy.
- decorations. With an 18 month old we're going to have to make sure it's not too dangerous, as he is quite grabby, so we'll have to scale back significantly. I have been known to go a bit mental with decorating at Christmas and it's just not necessary. I would like to get into the habit of being restrained.
- food. I LOVE cooking. I get over-excited when we have guests and buy masses and masses of food. The first Christmas we hosted I did about ten kinds of vegetable to go with the turkey. This year I'm going to hold back and just do 3 or so. And only one choice of pudding on Christmas day, not 3 laboriously made from scratch like the year before last! And WHY do we always buy great big massive turkeys and then freeze loads of the meat? I never fancy eating it once it's been in the freezer. I think I've just been brainwashed by Christmas films and magazines. This year I'm going to get a bird that will last us generously for Christmas Day and Boxing day and that's IT.
Things I'm not cutting back on:
- Christmas cards. I know the cost of stamps has gone up but I've got lots of relatives who would like an actual card with a photo of DS in it and a handwritten message, so I'm going to make the effort.
- events. In past years we've been too busy to do much around Christmas, this year I definitely want to go to a load of carol services/ christingles/ Christmas fetes etc etc. They're free! And DS will enjoy it a lot, I think.
- Christmas stories. I'm going to get the Night before Christmas book and read it to DS, and me and DH are going to listen to an audio book of A Christmas Carol in the run-up to Christmas.
I also plan to knit DS's stocking for Father Christmas. In past years I've planned to make far too many gifts and ended up all stressed out, and not everyone appreciates a home-knitted gift anyway, so this year I'm just going to make a hat and scarf for DH (he really appreciates them - or he claims to, at least!) and a jumper, hat and mittens for DS, plus his Christmas stocking. I'm starting now, so should be no trouble!
Oh and one more thing - I'm doing a massive clear out in November and decluttering, and then on the 27th of December I'm going straight down the charity shop with any gifts I've been given that I don't want. That might seem heartless, but I've got gifts in the cupboard I was given last Christmas and they're just sitting around taking up space in my life. Also, as everyone seems to give me body wash (possibly hinting something - I do wash, honest!) I've got about 9 bottles in the cupboard. Any more I get I am GIVING AWAY IMMEDIATELY. Nobody needs that much bodywash.
Anybody got any other minimalist tips? I am by nature not at all minimalist, so I need help!