"A letter to" in yesterday's Guardian here started me wondering why in this day and age, the view of women as the guardians of men's morals is still SO widespread? You see it on here on the relationships pages all the time - the idea that husbands can be 'stolen' and that its the OW who has betrayed the marriage much more than the husband - the idea that men are always going to cheat and it's up to women to stop them, whether that's the wife who should have "nipped this in the bud" or "put her foot down earlier", or the OW who should have not been available.
Clearly the letter is written by someone who has been betrayed and is very hurt, but IMHO saying "Men couldn't cheat if there was no one to cheat with" is just one step away from teaching abstinence to girls only in schools - making women always responsible for morality rather than putting the onus on men to behave better, and blaming them when they don't.
Thoughts?
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Why is the image of women as the guardians of male morality still so pervasive?
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Bramshott · 02/10/2011 11:52
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