My dd was 7 on Friday. She can dress herself, feed herself, make an omelette, type a message to her Auntie on FB, ride a bike etc etc. She is getting so much more independant by the day.
We chat in the car. Last week when it was International Women's Day there was something on the radio news so the subject came up. I can't remember exactly how the conversation went, but basically she said she thought that men were BETTER than women. I asked her why she thought that.
She replied that men were stronger and had better brains! She cannot tell me why she thinks that is true. Now I work FT, domestic tasks are pretty equally shared and DH has always been very hands on with her since she was born. I have to admit that recently DH is away a lot with work, so it is ME in the kitchen after work/school (though when she was smaller it was the other way round).
I want to start her (a little bit) on earning her pocket money by having jobs to do. But I want to do this without.....well rewarding her for being subservient. DH has asked her to get a beer out of the fridge. She says (laughing) "I am not your servant, dad" I say it's fine because we are a family and we like to do nice things for each other. It's nice when daddy makes me a cup of tea etc etc.
Where do you start? What are the right messages to give her? My backgound was NOT very egalitarian so I have nothing to fall back upon.
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Feminism and My 7 YO dd. The right message
Portofino · 14/03/2011 23:15
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