This story has amazed me...
I have recently met again with an old friend after many years, she now has a son 6 and a daughter 2. She is married to a man she had an affair with when he was married to his first wife, who he has 3 girls with 10, 12 & 13.
The first wife was told about the affair by her then husband because during the affair my friend fell pregnant. After a bit of to and fro he decided to leave his first wife for my friend to bring up their son together.
The first wife then arranged to meet my friend to talk and get to know her before the older girls started to have access visits with their Dad, - she obviously was angry and upset but kept focused on the bigger picture, i.e. her daughters being happy visiting their dad and the 'other woman'.
not only this but the son started to have visits at first wife's home with his step-sisters and she even looked after him when they went on their honeymoon!!
She had the boy stay when they were in hospital having the daughter too!!
now it's a regular thing, my friend's boy and baby girl stay with her whenever they want to get away just the two of them.
i'm just gobsmacked by it all really, how she managed to get past how angry she must have felt having her husband, her daughters' dad just snatched away from her, ...my friend says, 'yes we have been really lucky, she's been ridiculously reasonable about it all'
i mean
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am amazed by this woman, rare breed
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