please no lecture just honest opinions.
Left my partner of 12 years, in new relationship with man half my age. 8 months pregnant from new relationship. He has moved in with me.
I have 2 older children who do not live with me, 19 & 17. my dp is only 18.
My relationship was strained with my 2 children initially but has improved vastly during the last 6 months and they are now neither interested or disinterested in my relationship.
Same can not be said about dp. Dp is demanding i have nothing to do with my 2 older children. He wants just me him and baby.
He is embarrassed i have a child older than him. She is pregnant and he won't even allow me to tell his family as again he is embarrassed i am to be a grandmother.
Naturally i want to be there for my children and in doing so he says i am putting him 2nd and i obviously don't love him enough.
I am sad and desperatly upset by this situation. I realise this is my own doing, but i am cross as my two children were never any secret when this guy was getting involved with me. I realised his age may make our relationship difficult but never imagined it would be due to my children who incidently i love very much even if i dont see them very often.
I am faced with an ultimatum, stay with him and build a life for my baby but lose my 2 children or tell him no i will not and cope bringing baby up on my own.
I feel bitterly let down. Does anyone have any constructive advice please ?
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callmerach · 19/03/2008 22:08
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