why is it that they can change the contact schedule to suit them, cancel our contact completely on a whim but we dare ask for an amendment because I have a hospital appointment that cannot be altered and all hell breaks loose??!!
we stick to the contact regime rigidly because the exw gets nasty and starts quoting routine etc at us but asked her to amend at the end of last term as I had a hospital appointment in the next city which is about 20 miles away and takes well over an hour in rush hour. we asked to swap days and she went nuts and refused. but because she wanted to go to the beach on Wednesday so cancelled our contact and now wants us to have them extra over the weekend. she also wants to piss about in September for a family wedding by picking them up on the Saturday afternoon and bringing them back Sunday morning. I have said no as the time she wants to bring them back is when I will be due at a christening so have said she either brings them earlier or keeps them all weekend as their dad will have been at work the night before so will be in bed. she is currently flipping out that it's our weekend so we should be having them back.
Ffs why is it all their way or no way? she is off her bloody rocker and I am ready to blow my stack.
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