My dsc's are amazing!! They are funny and smart and great fun to be around most of the time. They are massively lacking in manners but dp is working on it, his exw apparently doesn't believe on the word no and doesn't insist on cutlery at the dinner table and is ok with fingers - the kids are 10 and 8.
However they seem to always have nits. We thought we had got rid by full marks'ing them every week when we have them and religiously combing. However due to holidays and exw request to cancel a contact night we hadn't seen them for just over 2 weeks when we picked them up on Friday night. Dsd (8) brushes her own hair and puts it in a bobble so I only need to do anything if she wants a plait which she did yesterday. Absolutely bloody covered in eggs and lice that could be seen without hassle or having to part her hair. So checked dss and he was just as bad.
I must have combed hundreds out of both of them last night and left the full marks on for over an hour to make sure the little buggers were dead (nits not the kids) - combed today and still getting eggs out but no live lice
Now my issue is exw said she had combed dsd on Friday and she was "clear" - I am no expert but I am guessing that for their to be adults, eggs and young lice she is either blind or didn't actually check and probably hasn't since they were last with us. I am livid as is dp. He hates that our contact is always filled with having to treat the kids and spending hours combing through their hair (he does dss while I do dsd) and no amount of discussion with exw seems to make a difference.
We have tried conditioner but exw refused to follow it through so it doesn't work, neem oil, tea tree etc I have bought stuff and sent it homeas I know it's not cheap and she always whinges she is skint (dp pays way over and above the csa amount amd we buy all school uniform, shoes etc and pay half of any school trips) but then she refuses to use it. I get on with his exw and would never ssy anything against her when the kids are in the house but the woman has to be an idiot for nit noticing surely?!! I have used all the branded stuff amdnnothing works. Help!!!
My mum suggested dettol but seems a tad weird! Anyone got any ideas please??!
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wheresthelight · 21/04/2014 21:51
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