14 yo ds1 has Aspergers, with an extreme aversion to making social overtures, even though he does enjoy the company of others. This has led to him being isolated and lonely.
If he was happy in his own company, I'd be inclined to leave him be and not stress him with social interaction. But he is not happy and the more isolated he becomes, the less interaction he has, and it's a negative cycle.
He seems liked by others in his class, but he does not engage with them. He avoids them, deliberately taking a different school bus.
How can I help him? I'm due to talk to the SENCO at his school but I haven't a clue what to propose.
In the past I have forced him to group activities (scouts and a local youth club) which he actually enjoyed and continued going to willingly. But he has outgrown them.
In the past I could call up mums to arrange playdates but that is ludicrous now for a 14 yo with a (totally unused) mobile phone.
I can barely talk to him about the subject because it is very sensitive and stressful for him.
I would be very very grateful for any suggestions or to hear from anyone with similar experiences.
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sergeantmajor · 07/02/2016 11:48
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