Dh been working late. Last night got in at midnight, night before working at home till midnight. Yesterday away on business.
Got in actually earlier than planned, which was most unusual & lovely surprise - got earlier flight.
Anyway, we're talking and I get whiff of booze (stale, like he's had a big piss up and it's starting to sweat out of pores iyswim) I don't think and just say something like 'how much have you been drinking'. He insists just had a couple.
Later in bed I've had time to think and am sure that smell results only from having drunk quite heavily say the night before. I ask him directly if he's been drinking. He gets really defensive & denies it completely. He falls asleep & now basically whole room smells of sweated out stale booze so I am really sure, but dreading what it might mean
If he has been on a bender, then he wasn't working late & was lying to me - lots of bad memories of affair come flooding back. But yesterday he had his car at work, so would've meant he drove back pissed, which I find v. hard to believe. Or would he be smelling that much tonight if he'd been drinking heavily today?
So how do I handle it? DO I just let it go? DO I insist he has obv. been drinking - room stinks? I can't access his mobile? Feels sick tbh
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dh stinking of booze, denies having drunk, I think he's lying, what do I do? (had affair 3 yrs ago...)
cuppa · 16/04/2010 02:31
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