This is a bit complicated but I did something which annoyed my BIL. DH works for his sister (BIL is her husband). BIL sent me an insulting email and then lied about a contract I had with his organisation so I lost a chunk of my income.
The whole situation would probably not have arisen but for the fact that we had a baby last year, so I cut back my working to do full time childcare.
After the baby I had PND and I missed DH so much when he wasn't there.
Since BIL sent the email and I lost my job DH and I have been having relationship counselling, because if we had been communicating better since DD arrived perhaps none of this would ahve happened.
Anyway, I am seem trapped in this pit whereas DH wants to move on and is getting fed up with me. The counsellor is good but she says DH is right and his attitude of not saying anything to BIL and going on as normal is right and better than mine.
I know they're right but it hurts so much. DH, BIL and SIL all carry on as normal. BIL gets to insult me and tell lies about me and I just have to live with it??
I don't know what to do or how to "move on". WFT does it mean anyway?
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I know I'm wrong but I wish someone would understand
CaresMildly · 19/11/2009 12:57
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