Will try and keep it brief...
We have DS 2.5 years.
Whenever DH and I fight (and usually over such small things) it escalates, and although I try and talk rationally he just refuses to listen to anything I hate to say and ends up shouting and ALWAYS resorts to slagging me off.
Today he called me a "f*king cnt" in front of our son
Yes, he has done it before.
When I ask him how he can possibly justify this and think it is acceptable he says it is my fault because "I pushed him". Like he has no responsibilty for what comes out his mouth!
Doubt he will ever change.
Also says really upsetting things like he wonders all the time if he would still be with me if DS wan't born. We have been together 12 years!
I try not to let his juvenile insults wear me down but of course they do, but my main concern is I dont want my son growing up exposed to that kind of behaviour and thinking it is normal.
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where to from here? Suspect is it too late!
blahdiblahblah · 24/04/2009 13:25
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