I don't know if anyone was/is in a similar situation... I am in a very happy relationship but have to deal with the controling ex-wife of my partner, who rejoyces in making my life miserable... she is controlling and manipulative, and since she has a little boy with my partner we cannot just tell her to bugger off ( oh, how I wish!)... since I met her she is constantly crossing our boundaries (bombarding my partner with phone calls, contstant attention seeking using the child as a pretext, etc.) and we have to keep her in check all the time yet trying to remain calm and diplomatic... she also tries to make me jealous and angry with provocative behaviour.
I hate the guts of this woman and the way she tries to get advantage through her child... besides she has tried a couple of times behind my back to get my partner back, as for some reason she thinks he belongs to her, although their relationship is over since a long time... (and nothing to do with me). Needless to say that she has recently started to manipulate the little one against me, who really likes me but is now very confused if he is "allowed" to be friends with me or if he should stay loyal to his mother. I cannot understand how people like her are allowed to have children and it outrages me...
How can I get my peace and hapiness back?? ;(
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Shalotta · 01/04/2009 11:11
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