Just had to get this off my chest. It bothers me all year really but Christmas is really exceptionally shit.
DH is a retail manager and he is working all hours God sends up to and over Christmas and the New Year. 12 hours 6 days per week, no extra money, starting at 6am Boxing Day and only Christmas Day off. Has to stay late tonight to put sale signage up so won't even see DS's go to bed on Christmas Eve all excited for Santa. The thing that really gets me is that he actually doesn't seem to be that bothered.
I have just been told this morning by DS1 that Daddy is going to get his (DS1's) present for DS2 today. Just rung DH at work and he said 'I told him I'd see' when he knows bloody well that he won't get out of the shop today. So I said 'in future just tell him the truth, say No'rather than have him disappointed. Luckily I have another pressie option up my sleeve but that is not the point.
He has disappointed kids over other things too - said he would build a manger for reindeers to eat out of - it's not finished and kids wanting to put it out tonight - said he had a 'santa stop here' sign, but asked him for it this morning before he left, and guees what? It's broken and he needs to mend it. When? You're always at bloody work!
Really need to vent frustration with myself as I said last year that I was not going to have another Christmas with disappointed kids again, and here I am, trying to make up for him again. So sad.
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philmassive · 24/12/2008 07:37
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