I broke up with my partner of three years about a month ago. He is my best friend and we are still extremely close and see each other once a week because he has my son on fridays. He is my son's 'daddy'. And although we arent together any more he is still playing his role in my sons life and because of this we are still a family in that sense.
However me and my ex were not having sex due to a decision made by myself to be celibate as i wanted to stay pure until we got married.Infact we have not had sex for the year. And although it was difficult at the beginning we knew the reasons for doing it and i was amazed by how close we still remained. It was not until a few months ago i started to feel isolated and feeling like things were still not any better. He has a demanding job and i am in college plus i work and have my son. So there was very little time for us to see each other and when we did it revolved around my son. And things were becoming extremely routined and i wanted out.
The confusing part is ever since the spilt we are getting on much better and im finding myself becoming rather attracted to him more and more.
I dont want us to have sex. As i am aware i ended the relationship for things to improve. I am afraid if i allow something to happen tonight it will result in a bad way. I love him and he still loves me. It is clear that neither of us wants to move on. But we clearly have issues to resolve in our relationship and i dont want anything to complicate matters.
Advice asap!
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Ex is here and i think something is going to happen
Mumlikeu · 07/11/2008 21:32
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