So there you go - There goes 15 yrs of marriage.
I have posted before but here is a brief (as brief as I can) summary...
Last Nov, h tells me he is seeing someone else, he loves her, he has even moved her into his company flat in the city he spends alot of time.
We do lots of crying & talking and we decide to try again. Trouble is h really isn't trying. We try counselling but he doesn't want to go back. He doesn't really want to talk about what happened or us.
I find out he is still in touch with ow again and again. He tells me now that it is over but I can't believe him!
We have been just getting along (especially important as 3 dc involved 9,7 & 3) but he tells me this week, the night before our dd's birthday party and a few days before we are off to France for 2 weeks that he cares for me but there is no love there.
Apparently it is best that we seperate! He sees no point in prolonging the agony - it wont get any better.
I feel a bit better just putting it down in writing - just feel sick and sad!
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"I care about you but there is no love there anymore" he says
stirlingmum · 26/06/2008 11:29
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