And is there a solution?? We are very lucky to have a playroom for 19mth old DD (although she just tends to bring her toys into the kitchen instead, but they always go back). She doesn't write on walls (yet!), or throw her food around, and at the end of the day she always helps me 'play tidy-up'. Yet DD has said we've trashed the house, and the house has gone down in value since we moved here because of it! I try to explain that day to day living will have an effect on how the house appears, he says i don't realise how much things cost, and i also don't care. I think i keep as clean & tidy a home as poss, do a huge clean once a week, must wash dishes 8 times a day, and constantly sweep & mop kitchen floor!
When DD is eating (which she does very well), things will sometimes end up on the floor (which i always clean away), but he 'tutts' and is practically standing under her with a cloth. Am worried she's going to end up with OCD re cleanliness if this carries on.
And now this weekend, with my parents visiting for Mother's Day, he's just had a go at me cos they brought their dog (which they always do), and he's worried the newly laid wooden(ish) floors will get marked!! It's only a poor little Yorkie, not a huge Great Dane. and he's a vey clean, no trouble at all little doggie.
Sorry for the huge post, but am getting very worn down arguing this point constantly, and i know that he just thinks i'm wrong, but what can i do about it? It's like he wants to live in a show home. God help when we start potty training her
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Anybody live(d) with a partner who cannot accept that TODDLER'S MAKE MESS! And living in a house will make it looked lived in, FFS!
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