Would like opinions on this scenario please:
The man I've been seeing a while suggests going away for a night somewhere (we've done this once before - was brilliant)
He asks me to find hotel I like - I do, Send him a link, he says he likes it - he brings it up again in conversation when I see him, saying how he likes the hotel etc (last Thurs)
I ask which dates would be good for him
He says 'I just need to hear about X event at work, then will have time frame'
X event is announced meaning that we would ideally need to go away in next 3 wks to fit in with his work.
I message Fri saying 'days I can do are x & x - any good?'
He seems disappointed as can only do one of the nights I'm free & he'd suggested two
He says 'I'll have a think and get back to you' (this was Fri)
So I leave it - we chat about other stuff over rest of Fri, yest and this morning
Then today I message after chatting about other stuff I msg saying 'what are yr thoughts re those dates?'
He says 'sorry meant to check, will do..'
Thing is, my gut tells me I am now being given the brush off. This happened once before, he suggested going away, I suggested dates he said would get back to me - never did. I let it slide and gave him benefit of doubt. But I'm. feeling pissed off this time. There seems to be a sort of pattern emerging of him suggesting really nice plans that don't materialise. It's happened with his suggestions about days out, restaurants, cinema trips etc Somehow there's rarely time for these lovely suggestions yet he usually has time for sex, however rushed He says he loves me. Buys me thoughtful presents. But somehow I'm feeling quite shit and I don't know why.
Any advice? Is this future fakery? Do I call him out on it? Sometimes I just feel like walking away but I can't quite get myself to.
Thanks
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Am I being dicked around?
HoursOfFun · 22/01/2017 13:02
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