Clearly I've name changed :)
I've been here before. Dh has issues with alcohol. He's probably an alcoholic (but a very functional one). I love him. He's a great guy but he drinks to cope with his anxiety.
I thought we were getting there and we were past it all. We went out tonight. I've matched him drink for drink. I'm not claiming to be sober but I'm typing in coherent sentences (I hope). He's completely and utterly plastered. Clearly he's been drinking on top of what I've seen but when challenged he claims not.
I don't know what I do now. He's a "great dad" (but honestly if we went for custody he probably spends more time with the kids than I do and I am not any better a parent). I love him but I can't deal with the deceit. It's not that being this drunk is an issue, it's that being this drunk but lying to my face about whether or not he's drunk more than I've seen is an issue. It's the randomness, I think everything's ok and then something hits me out of the blue.
Long term I probably know what I need to do. It's his choice and he's made it. But how do I do it?
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So where now
SeriouslyIneedtonamechange · 21/09/2016 22:18
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