I've just realized that DH and I don't sleep at the same time anymore.
He works long hours. 13-15 hours. On a good day around 10 hours. He's been particularly busy recently and working super late. So we never went to bed at the same time. Fair enough. But over the weekend and today was his day off, he's been going to sleep after me. Preferring to play on his PS4.
In order for him to work long hours, I do everything at home. It gets pretty lonely for me. I thought he would spend one night with me. But he would come in and give me a quick hug and then go off to play till 1/2am.
We also have had sex since June last year. No kissing, nothing. He used to blame it on being tired. Which ok I get. But if he is so tired, why play till so late?
Just so I don't drop feed, he cheated on me 4 years ago. We have seen a therapist. He said that his lack of interest in sex was because of his guilt. So the therapist recommended that he take care of my needs and not to concentrate on sex. Which he doesn't do.
I feel alone. And pretty much unloved. I feel like I'm here to do my duty as a wife and a mum. And that's it. Am
I being crazy? I don't know
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Do you and your DP sleep at the same time?
sleeplessincali · 13/09/2016 03:06
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