As the title says.... :(
I have developed really strong feelings for one of my guy friends. He is in a long term relationship- engaged and has a child. Recently he has confided in me about the relationship and how although he loves her, for the past year or two he has questioned if he is still in love with her and feels he just tries to make it work for the sake of the child.
He has said how he feels comfortable talking to me and enjoys talking to me, he says I'm hilarious and when I've moaned about being single and asked him to set me up with one of his mates he has said none of them are worthy of me...
We have never done anything physical and I don't believe he ever would try but obviously there is an undercurrent of attraction between us.
I know I need to stop my friendship with him. You cant be friends with someone you have feelings for, and if he is confused about his relationship he needs to figure that out on his own. I cant wait around for him. I need to just forget and move on.
How do you move on from someone you want but can't have and can't even tell them you want them?
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I have feelings for my engaged friend
DaisyChain08 · 29/08/2016 13:04
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